Dealbreakers aka Standards

Whats up world?! Today we discuss my thoughts on relationship dealmakers. We should all have standards so if you don’t, allow me to share mine.

Mine are:
Financially irresponsible… money woes can kill a relationship. If you don’t talk about finances you’re doomed for relationship failure. Trust me, a guy who monitors his expenses and understands terms like net income or ‘in the red’ is a winner to me! He must know the basics and doesn’t spend frivolously, even if he’s rich. So… if you go dutch but he tips 50% of the tab RUN! It’s ‘cute’ but very telling. How in the world can you not pay for the whole dinner but wanna show off on the tip? Not impressed! This has cheap and pretentious written all over it.

Smoker… yes, vaping counts too! Drinking and smoking are or can be money wasters, says the chick who’s vice is Starbucks. But that’s it though, so it’s fair for me to say. I don’t drink (sip only on NYE), smoke and have never had pakalolo/mary jane/maui wowwee; and don’t ever plan to. 😜😆

Lack of initiative… when I plan everything because he’s boring and not creative. Good vibes killer. 🤣 Guys, if it matters to you to impress a lady worthy of your time, please ‘Google it’ or find it on YouTube. As many resources as we have today through the internet and technology, there is no excuse for anyone to be lazy or uneducated on any subject matter. If you lack the initiative to look up ‘simple romantic date ideas’ you deserve to be branded on your forehead “RED FLAG! STEER CLEAR” 🤣 🤣

I’d love to read your thoughts on this! Please leave a comment below. No judgment on my part, just want a good read or laugh. 😁

ALOHA and XO!!  
Sunkissed Haze

Featured image: Custom card my friend’s mom makes for holidays or any day. She sent me this on Halloween and I love it. Alpha lady vibes!